I’m a Sex Coach, and I Swear By Scheduling Sex in Relationships

Related Information If you’ve ever been in a long-term relationship, this might sound familiar: You and your partner tumble into bed at the end of each day completely exhausted, promising yourselves you’ll have sex tomorrow. Then that tomorrow-sex rarely comes, pun fully intended. As a certified sex coach and sexologist, I often hear about how […]

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The Case for Telling Your Partner Exactly How You Want to Feel During Sex

You’re lying in bed, your partner’s head is between your legs, and you’re not exactly going wild with pleasure. If only they realized that your clitoris is an inch higher than where they’re determinedly lapping away. Well, this is never going to happen, you might think. Do I just chill here until they’re bored, or…? […]

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We Asked 15 People With Vaginas How to Make Oral Sex Even Better

The pleasure of oral sex is, for many people, one of the joys of being human. As a sex educator and coach, you might say I’m on a mission to let everyone know that cunnilingus is fabulous to give and to receive. Might I remind you that the clitoris—the rosebud-like bump at the top of […]

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Uncircumcised Penis: 11 Things Everyone Should Know

It’s time to talk about uncircumcised penises. We here at SELF give vaginas a lot of attention, which makes sense. But penises—including uncircumcised penises in particular—deserve their time in the sun, too. Why the emphasis on the uncircumcised penis instead of, well, all of them? I don’t know about you, but I’ve heard a fair […]

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Here’s Everything You Need to Know About Anal Beads

You’ll find no shortage of explanatory pieces on the Internet when it comes to butt stuff. There are so many ways to explore the butt. Some people use fingers, while others prefer dildos or butt plugs. And, of course, people enjoy a mix of things. Yet in all of this ongoing hoopla, we’ve forgotten a […]

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