The Highs and Lows of Finding Love on the Spectrum

Long before he was diagnosed with A.S.D. at 35, Steve Asbell of Orange Park, Fla., had one of his worst dating experiences. He had traveled to Kansas to see a woman he considered to be his “long-distance girlfriend.” It was only after approximately “43 missed social cues and 71 euphemisms” that he understood what was […]

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Can a Good-Enough Marriage Make for a Great Divorce?

We texted back and forth in a delicate flurry. He said she was just a friend and of course he would have told me if anything was going on. We agreed to this as our first rule: If anything happens dating-wise, there needs to be a conversation. We agreed that that would probably be the […]

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We Wanted to Split Up. OkCupid Had Other Ideas.

Four years into our marriage, my husband found me on OkCupid. I had only joined the site to check out his profile. He had joined to find someone else. A friend helped me with the long sign-up process after we returned to my place from our weekly two-ounce glass of moscato at the Mission Inn […]

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Remote Work Gave Us a Life Together. Now What?

Before the pandemic, I measured the distance between me and Matt in increments of travel. Fifteen hours by car from Ventura, Calif., to Santa Fe, N.M. If I flew, it was two hours in traffic to LAX, then a two-hour flight to Albuquerque and another hour on the shuttle bus to the adobe casita where […]

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How to Spot a Love Addict

Practice Healthy Texting Texting can be a potential minefield for love addicts, as there is often room for miscommunication, leading to anxiety and fear. Ms. Cohen said love addicts should refrain from talking about feelings via text with their partner, particularly negative emotions. “This will be good practice for you to regulate your feelings until […]

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Tiny Love Stories: ‘My Body Told a Different Story’

‘The Daughter She Needed’ The day my 80-year-old mother announced she was moving to my town for the rest of her life, I was so shaken, I couldn’t remember how to set the table. Three thousand miles separated us for a reason. She had betrayed and refused to support me at the worst moment of […]

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An Anxious Person Tries to Be Chill

Eventually, it was obsessing over my neighbor that grew boring — trying to make dinner plans with someone who found reservations “restricting” and watching friends zone out as I complained, yet again, about him canceling. I stopped leaving my light on all night, got some proper sleep, found a therapist and became open to the […]

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Sometimes I Hate My Husband’s Peloton

“It’s right in my line of sight,” said Mr. Salser-Smith, 54. “Always. It’s just this thing sitting there, reminding me I’m fat.” While his husband uses it regularly, Mr. Salser-Smith has used the machine once. The marriage was already strained by constant togetherness, he said, and now his self-consciousness about his weight gain — and […]

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Tiny Love Stories: ‘My First Love Called Me a Vacation’

“Leave It to Beaver” and New Love Anna was the manager of the Tucson, Ariz., assisted living home where my father lived. The day father moved in, I told her I wanted to rearrange the furniture. She had already done it when I arrived. She cut his toenails, combed his hair, watched sports and “Leave […]

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A Fast-Moving Coronavirus Means ‘Slow Dating’

For those considering venturing back out into the dating game, Dr. Mattox had some advice: Choose potential partners who have an appetite for risk that is similar to yours. If “you aren’t comfortable eating inside restaurants or even using the drive-through, you will be anxiety-ridden dating someone who’s taking a girls trip to Bermuda,” she […]

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Tiny Love Stories: ‘I Laughed Out Loud to Nobody in Particular’

A Vision in the Trees Earlier this year, I went out with someone who told me that chickens slept in trees. I refused to believe him, but our banter helped during a time when I was overwhelmed with grief from my grandmother’s passing. Things didn’t take flight with Chicken Man. Several months later, I spotted […]

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Why My Daughter Got (Temporarily) Married at 13

And so, I assented. I assented without calling home to consult my partner of 20-something years, a lapse in judgment that would become a sore point between us. In the crowded cafe, I was, perhaps not surprisingly, overcome with thoughts of my own mother, who was preoccupied until her death with the state of my […]

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