Intensely horny? Good news: we’ve got the best vibrators you can buy. There are more than a dozen reasons masturbation is good for you: It can help you destress, boost your mood, and potentially help you fall asleep faster. Masturbation can also increase your libido, lessen the pain from your period cramps, and let’s be honest, using a sex toy can feel like a workout too. Ahead of Valentine’s Day, we tapped a group of sex experts to get their read on the best vibrators for people with vulvas.
How to choose the best vibrator?
Although fingers are an excellent sex toy, many of us turn to vibrators for our masturbation needs. “Rocking your hips, arching your back, grinding against your toy,” whatever you do, sex educator Luna Matatas says to “give it” to your vibrator rather than using your vibe to “give it to you.” But to really get into it, you have to have the right vibrator. The best vibrators come in a number of different styles, with more or less powerful motors, and come in materials ranging from hard metal to soft silicone. Finding the right vibrator for you can take some experimentation.
Besides masturbation, using sex toys with a partner can increase pleasure for both parties and invite a sense of playfulness into the bedroom (or bathroom, or kitchen…). “There are lots of couples that are looking for vibrators to use together,” says Jenn Mason, founder and owner of WinkWink, a Washington-based, women-owned sex shop. “Sometimes the instinct is to go for something really small and discreet for your first time, but I always encourage people to think about getting something that’s a little bit bigger if they’re using it with a partner, because it has a higher chance of success and is easier to find the right spot.”
Looking to expand your collection from that tiny bullet vibe you picked up at Spencer’s years ago? If you’re unsure how to navigate the many, many options, we spoke with experts and curated a list of top-rated vibes based on their recommendations. Whether you’re a sex toy novice or you and your partner are looking for a few to try together, these picks are fun for everyone. Mason notes that most—if not all—of these will feel good on a penis or around other erogenous zones too. See all of our expert-recommended sex-toy picks right here.
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